Ce n'était pas de l'amour. C'était une stratégie. #emotions #relations #psychologie

It started with love and then disappeared. It wasn't about love, it was about strategy. Love bombed. It's when they pull attention. Compliment. Promises. Your brain is wet under dopamine. You feel chosen. Unique. Special. And when it's the law, you panic. You just want to find this rock at the beginning. But it's the rock. It gives you, then it cuts. And every time you step back. It's not about passion. It's about conditioning. The real love of calm. Love bambing. Depuis. So learn to recognize the excesses. Those who find the way, always end up descending. Because a man who needs to do too much, often hides a speed that he wants to bring you. He idealizes at the beginning to better end up diminishing. The real love test is not the intensity of the beginning. It's the constant in time. Love does not consume you. It builds you slowly. Not at all. Never. And if you want to learn to recognize the emotional strategies, hide them and do it for yourself.