Love should never cost you your peace, your worth, or your boundaries. Read that again. 💔✨ #podcast #EmotionalIntelligence #RelationshipAdvice #HealingJourney #SelfRespect

Because if you show a man you'll stay through anything he'll start to believe he can put you through everything because when there are no boundaries when you make excuses for the disrespect when you stay after the let downs broken promises he learned something you're not leaving he doesn't need to regulate he doesn't need to show up you've already proven he doesn't have to and I get it you thought loving him through his chaos would make him love you more you thought your loyalty would teach him how to treat you but it doesn't it teaches him you'll tolerate anything just to be chosen and once he learns that he'll keep testing just to see how far you're willing to stay he'll mistake your compassion for weakness your patience for passivity and with every second chance you give he chips away at your self-worth slowly you start losing yourself while he gets comfortable in your sacrifice he won't change because he doesn't have to because he knows you'll always be there even when he's not yeah but love without respect isn't love it's survival and you weren't born to survive someone you were born to be cherished protected and chosen not begged for