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Why does this person keep disrespecting you, keep treating you badly, but they say that they love you? Why haven't they just left? They say they love you, but all of their actions point in the opposite direction. It makes no sense. Surely it would just be easier for them to leave if they want to disrespect you and do the things they're currently doing, but they don't. They stick around and say they love you and try to make it better, and yet they do it all over again. Why does this happen? I'm gonna explain. How, by the way, if you knew him on his page, I'm a relationship and knife copes. Please do follow me if you want to stick around. So I want to start by saying that there are different types of love, and when we're in a relationship where somebody keeps disrespecting us, treating, being disrespectful, just doing things that you don't do okay in a relationship, and yet they tell you that they love you. This is called selfish love. And when you keep taking them back, forgiving them, hoping that it's gonna change, you have unconditional love, and when these two types of love meet, it's always unbalanced, because the selfish love is always going to do what's best for the ego, and the unconditional love is always going to do what's best for the other person. It's almost like you have two glasses of water. You are the left. They are the right. And you are going to keep pouring your glass of water into theirs. There's is going to be overflowing, but yours is going to be empty. And this is what happens in this relationship. You think that the more water you pour into their glass, the better it's going to become. But their love isn't going to change. They have entered into a selfish type of love. And that type of love isn't unconditional. They aren't going to pick their glass up and start to pour into yours. So it's time to remove your glass from the table. Selfish love runs from ego. It runs on what's best for them. I'm sure people can change, but they can't be forced to change. And if they were going to change, it would have happened by now, or at least in effort too. So when you're in a relationship like this, it's because both of your types of love are different. And if you're sitting there right now as the person who has the unconditional type of love, this is something I can help you with. No, I'm not here to force you to leave your partner or to make any decisions. But I am here to get you to a point where you feel strong enough to either go and find that unconditional love and match it, or take that unconditional love and push it inwards. So that you're pouring back into your own glass, not into somebody else's.