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Want to know if someone actually aligns with you or if you're just trying to make something work that doesn't feel right? Ask these three questions because their answers, they tell you everything Most people don't get this wrong because they pick the wrong person you they get it wrong because they don't ask the right things early enough So they end up months in already attached trying to fix something that was never aligned to begin with So here's what you ask first what actually matters to you in a connection not surfaced stuff What actually matters because if they can't answer that they haven't even thought about it, and if they haven't thought about it They're just going with whatever feels good in the moment Second, what has been missing for you in past dating experiences? This tells you everything about their awareness Do they reflect or do they just blame because someone who understands themselves Will give you a real answer here and third what kind of energy are you actually looking for calm, playful, deep because if they don't know They'll accept anything and if they accept anything they won't recognize you properly either and that's the part people miss Alignment isn't something you figure out later. You feel it early when you ask the right things To be honest, I've actually been looking into something recently. It's still early just a wait list But it's built around this idea of starting with alignment first if that makes any sense to you the link will be in the bio