This is why you can’t care what people think 🤷🏾‍♀️#foryou #fyp #viral #explore #foryoupage

that I notice that people will look at you like you're weird for is cutting people off when you first see the red flags. And I saw a creator make a video about the fact that people will think you are weird for taking the first step in the connection when you see that something is toxic or wrong, right? You cut people off quickly and easily. When I think this is actually a good trait, especially in the society that we live in with everything going on, right? When you see those first red flags or those first toxic traits that somebody exhibits, you absolutely need to cut them off quickly. So I find it funny that people shift the blame to the person that is experiencing those things versus shifting the blame to the person who is actually doing those things to other people. It's like why am I weird for cutting somebody off quickly when I see something is wrong, right? I feel like if more people had that trait or that discernment, right? And not all the time does that necessarily work. But if more people had that trait or that level of discernment or that level of self-trust, you know, then a lot of situations could be avoided. I'll never forget my therapist said at one time. Sometimes you don't always need proof. You just need to trust yourself.