How high value women handle ghosting in dating 👻 A man doesn’t ghost just if it’s a hookup, situationship or not serious… These are power moves that high value women use to heal and bounce back after a dating disappointment like ghosting. You can’t control what men will do but you control how you RESPOND 💎 . . . #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #relationships #datinglife

Here is what a high value woman does when a man goes. Yes, high value women can get ghosted too, but these specific steps she takes after she gets ghosted. It helps her bounce back quicker and attract even better the next time around, especially number three. And before we dive in, I'm Valerie. I'm a love coach for single women who are ready to attract their dream relationship. Follow me for more advice and book a session in my bio. The first thing the high value woman does if she gets ghosted is she does not tie it to her worth. She doesn't blame herself or take responsibility for the fact that the man ghosted. What she does do is she knows that it's a reflection of him. She knows it's a reflection of him not having the courage and not having the standards to let her know if he had changed his mind or if he actually wasn't ready for something serious. She knows that him choosing to go radio silent and not communicating with her isn't a reflection of her value. It's a reflection of where he's at in his emotional intelligence. The second thing she does is she uses ghosting as clarity and protection. Even though it stings and she'll need to take time to process, she can pretty quickly get herself to this place of gratitude where she is thankful that she has been protected and this man's truth and who he really is has been revealed to her because that is super valuable. She is just as grateful for the clear signs that somebody is not for her and not meant to be in her future as she is for the signs that they are because it gives her that clarity and she knows when she has clarity she can make the moves that are in alignment with her and she doesn't have to waste her time guessing analyzing or decoding. She knows that his character was revealed and she is divinely protected. The third thing a high value woman does if she gets ghosted is she does not seek feedback from him and she does not try to chase him down for closure. She knows that no matter what he could ever say to her it would never give her the closure that she could give herself. It would only make things worse and only open up and invite in more loops and unhelpful thoughts. She takes the time to journal energetically release him. She does belief shifting work. She heals her mind and makes sure that she is in a place to attract better the next time. She looks for the lessons she's grateful for what she has learned from this experience and she uses it to only make her better. It's how she doesn't let herself get stuck for months on end where she closes herself off. She's not open to meeting new people. She takes time to really sit with what happened. She learns from it and it helps her not only feel better within herself but of course she is going to attract better the next time around. She'll know the signs to look out for. She'll learn the lessons so it doesn't need to be repeated. It's not about never being ghosted because you can't control that, it's about how you respond to it.