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Your attraction to someone is showing you the exact shape of your missing structure almost every single time for every single person Almost no one has recognized themselves enough internally for any attraction to be non-distorted actually when you feel chemistry or sparks That is your nervous system locating its missing structure in another person. You want it because you need it if you have no ground Then finding someone who holds it all together makes you feel like you don't have to anymore So that feels like a relief. That feels like attraction and chemistry gives you dopamine to not have to struggle against the thing that you don't have the thing is it is still a missing structure whether someone else is holding it or not and The only way to see someone else cleanly and accurately is if you don't need That if you don't have a missing structure because otherwise you can't see them at all clearly So whether it's a relief or not it is a distortion most compatibility most attraction most relationships now Days are a missing structure compensation. That's it. The way that we see men and women being is not the way that they are It's a stabilized distortion. It's stabilized codependency. It can't last forever. It's not sustainable at all Because what happens when that other half of your missing structure goes away? You free fall you're you're not having stability anymore. You can't access that function anymore But it is actually your function to develop nobody wants to develop themselves nobody wants to do the hard work of Compressing your potential out into reality, but as soon as you do the effort it requires to live life Reduces dramatically that peaceful non-bothered state that everybody wants to get to it requires a lot of compression of those hard things If you find yourself hooked by being attracted to a certain archetype that you find talks at yourself For example Life is really trying to get you to develop that capacity Polarity integration is coming soon. It will tell you every single aspect of this What to do about it how to develop your own capacity how to read other people how to read your relationship as it stands Who's holding what and how to develop that missing capacity? It's coming very soon. I really don't know when I'm kind of on a marathon right now and I'm trying to Finalize it all