NEVER trust the person you’re dating who does one or all of these 3 things #redflags #run #trust #redflag #dating

Never trust the guy or the girl you're dating that does one of these three things in early dating. The first one, they create emotional intimacy faster than behavioral consistency. So they'll have the deep tops, the future stuff, the vulnerability dumps, but their actions stay vague, delayed or inconsistent. You deserve better than that, baby. The second thing, they disappear, pull back, after closeness instead of communicating like an adult. Every time things get feel good, they go quiet, they get busy, or they suddenly need space without naming what's actionally happening. We don't need to name their attachment style, we can just say that that doesn't work for you. And the third thing, they keep you emotionally engaged without moving the relationship forward. You're talking, you're texting, you're seeing each other just enough to stay attached, but never enough to feel secure. Welcome to a dopamine loop, baby. It's not actually about them. Never was.