🎯 Tus hijos no copian lo que dices… repiten quién eres. Puedes dar los mejores discursos sobre amor, generosidad o respeto… Pero si tu forma de vivir contradice tus palabras, ellos copiarán tus actos, no tus frases. 👀 Te miran cuando reaccionas con rabia. 🛠️ Te observan cuando gritas, juzgas o te frustras. 💬 Te escuchan mentir, incluso cuando crees que no lo notan. Tus hijos no necesitan padres perfectos. Necesitan adultos coherentes. Necesitan ver que sabes equivocarte… y reparar. 🧠 La verdadera crianza no está en lo que dices, sino en quién eres cuando nadie te ve. 💬 Si esto te tocó, no estás solo. 👉 Sigue esta cuenta para más contenido que transforma la crianza desde adentro. 📲 Y ve al link de mi perfil para conocer las herramientas que RGP tiene para ti y tu forma de ser madre o padre. #CrianzaConsciente #ParentingReal #PsicologíaInfantil #EducaciónEmocional #PadresPresentes

Your children do not obey what you say, repeat who you are, repeat who you have become, how you react to things, how you solve the problems. My dad says that I stop fighting with my brothers, but he fights all the time with my mother. My mother says that she doesn't lie to the people, but I just listen to my grandmother. My parents say that we should be generous with others, but my father puts like crazy when someone touches his tool. And my mother doesn't press anything or her best friends. When your children grow up, they don't remember the things you said. They will remember who you are, they will remember how it felt to grow up with you. And it seems to us that adults have forgotten who we are. It is much more important than what we do. And when your children go wrong, you put that tension to what you said, to what you did. Never have anyone who has become and how it feels to be with someone like you. Your children do not obey what you say, repeat who you are, repeat who you have become, how you react to things, how you solve the problems, how you love and care to people, and how much you leave other people and care to you. It is to seek better advice from how to say better phrases to your children, and better pay attention to how it feels to grow with someone like you, how it feels to try to understand the life with a person who is put in conflicts in which you put them. And that it is to try to solve them in the rare ways in which you do it. It is who we are, what makes our children understand the life, not the discourses we give. It is to worry about seeing you well and tell the beautiful things. That is why I always tell you the families' parents. Do you fight with your mother or with your father in front of the children? It turns out the things also in front of the children because of what they are going to remember. It is how you leave the front of you, not of the incredible discourses you gave them.