las 6 etapas del amor #amor #etapas #relacion #fyp

A relationship that will never be broken has to happen for these six stages. The 90% of the couples throw the towel before reaching the best part, because no one explained that real love goes through six stages. And if you understand this, you will save your relationship, stage one, the illusion. Mariposas in the stomach, messages to the three in the morning, songs that suddenly talk about you all seem perfect, because still it's not real. It's chemical, it's novelty, it's your brain filling yourself with dopamine, enjoy it, but don't confuse this with love. It's stage two, reality. Suddenly, you see what the relationship was about, the defects, the hands, the problems that they face before knowing each other, the way they stick together. The tone when it's tired, the things that I didn't tell you at the beginning, love continues there, but it's no longer automatic. Now it's time to choose all the days. It's stage three, the torment. The same fights that are repeated, the same silences that duel. The nights are giving themselves a break in the same bed. Here is where all of them all go. Because they confuse the conflict with the end. Think, if it were the right person, it would not be so difficult, but listen carefully, it's not breaking. It's forming. The torment is not the proof that it's over. It's the proof that something real is doing. Stage four, the learning. Here goes magic. Learn to speak without defending, to listen without defending. To ask forgiveness without that it's wrong. Let them be able to have the reason and begin to force themselves to understand each other. Discovering that love is not never going to be discussed. It's not going to be discussed without destroying. Stage five, the team, something changes. They are no longer against the other. They are the two against the world. They are covered with their backs. They celebrate the achievements of the other as their own. When one falls, the others have it. Let them compete and begin to build. Stage six, peace. They are known for truth. Without masks, without filters, without having to hurt anything. They know what they didn't find. They built it difficult for difficulty. Forgive, forgive. Decision, decision. And every year that happens, in order to waste them, they make them stronger. So if you are with that person and feel that they are in the torment, don't laugh. The majority is just before the miracle. The best of love is not at the beginning. It is on the other side of the torment. Share this with someone who needs it today. Leave your amen, if you call your partner.