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All right, most people study you before they use you before they make a move on you, right? And this is what I always say to people over sharing is a curse, especially online. A lot of people put their whole lives out there and not realizing that there are predatory people out there that are studying. Johnathan, especially nowadays when a lot of people are living in survival mode, when people are living in survival mode, they will do anything to better their situation. Johnathan, that includes using other people as a stepping stone to a better life, right? So where people go wrong is they will put themselves out there. They will over share on social media, they will show their weaknesses, their strengths, they will be so transparent, not know it, that you are inviting some demons into your life. Because some people will actually sit back and study like you're a past paper. They will study you like they're trying to revise for an exam. And you might think is harmless, but it's not. And that's why when you meet people who are telling you, I know you so well, I know you so much, especially in a short period of time, that's not normal. Run. Run. Don't understand. Because especially if a person openly admits to studying you, people should not be studying you. That's not genuine, that's not normal. Yeah, rationed information about yourself, try not to be so out there. Whether it's Instagram, whether it's Snapchat, whether it's TikTok, whatever it is, calm it down. Yeah, because you will get some characters that are absolutely revising the hell out of you, thinking what is the best way to use this person? Be careful when people start asking about your family members, your traumas, what works, what doesn't work. Because a lot of the time, some people are pushing little buttons to see where do I get pushed back? What works? What doesn't work with this person? And when they feel like they've got you figured out the role then will come out. Because at this point, they have all the tools and all the information to manipulate and to use you. Do not give people that strength. Do not give people that power. Do you understand? Ration the information about yourself. Because there are some people that can look at a person and realise hold on. This person is living a good life. This person has it all figured out. If I just enter their life, my life will get better. You know what they say? Beware of Greeks, bearing gifts, not actual Greeks in this sense, but you get the point. Beware. Because a person can come around doing all this all. I feel like I've known you for years. We just get along so well and you're sitting there thinking, yeah, I found my person. You're thinking, yeah, this guy has my friend. Not knowing this person has been watching you for months before they strike. People will study you before they use you. It's not a game. It's not a joke. Especially when you have things that other people don't have. Especially when you can take somebody to the promised land. Especially when you have a network that can turn into a net worth. Run! Protect your free points by any means necessary. Don't give it up for nothing and for no one. Let people prove to you as to why they should be in your life. And luck heart will always say, make somebody in life great again and show them who you are.