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Don't marry the person you can post cute pictures with. Marry the person you can actually survive life with. Because anyone can love you on a Friday night. When the bills are paid, your makeup's done, and everything feels easy. But who are they when life hits you out of nowhere? When money is tight, when the car breaks down. When you're sitting on the room floor crying, because everything fell apart at once. Real love isn't good-fi. Real love is someone saying, "I'm not going anywhere, even now, who holds your hair when you're sick." Who answers the phone when your voice is shaking? Who sees you tired, broke, unfiltered, and stays? Don't get fooled by people who only know how to love you in restaurants and on vacation. Ask yourself, "Who would sit with me in a hospital room?" Stop looking for someone you can only laugh with. Find the person you're willing to cry with. Heal with, face life with, who would sleep on the floor just so I'm not alone. Because in the end, it's not who makes the good days prettier. It's who makes the bad days bearable.