Psychologisch gesehen leiden Menschen, die immer alles alleine regeln, oft an sogenannter Hyper-Unabhängigkeit. Das klingt erstmal stark. Unabhängig sein. Niemanden brauchen. Alles selbst schaffen. Aber in Wahrheit ist es oft genau das Gegenteil. Diese Menschen haben irgendwann gelernt, dass sie sich auf niemanden verlassen können. Dass Hilfe entweder nicht kommt oder mit Bedingungen verbunden ist. Also hören sie auf zu fragen. Sie machen alles selbst. #viral #mindset #psychology #spiritualität #seele

Psychologically-speaking people, who are always the only rules, often called "coupa unabhängigkeit". That sounds strong, unabhängig, nobody needs it, everything itself. But in truth, it is often the opposite. These people have somehow learned that they can't leave anyone. The help is not coming again, or is connected with conditions. So, they ask themselves, they do everything themselves, problems, emotions, pressure. Everything will be solved internally, and from outside it will be strong. But inside it means, you don't trust anyone anymore. You don't let anyone take a step in order to get over it. And at some point, you don't notice that you actually need help. You just work, still, controlled, alone. That's not a big deal. That's a protection mechanism. Successful works and light for more and more people. Sometimes it's the biggest step not to achieve everything alone. But to let anyone support it.