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I would divorce my husband if he did any of these things and we've been together for eight years now. If my husband suddenly found religion in a patriarchal god, I would divorce him. I did not sign up for that lifestyle. We are not doing it and I am not raising our son in a religion. If my husband started forming a really close relationship to a woman to the point where I was questioning, like, if I should be comfortable with this and I felt the need to go through his phone, then I would divorce him. Once you're starting to doubt things, it's already too late. I know people love to say, well, you should communicate with him, but communicate what? That he's crossing boundaries, crossing lines. He knows. Number three, if I started having to ask him to spend time with me, if he didn't just want to spend time with me, I would divorce him. I am not going to be like second, third, fourth best in our relationship of two. Number four, if he fell into addiction and I know what addiction is, I know what addiction is, I have lost somebody extremely close to me to addiction. I know what it is and I would divorce him. And number five, I would divorce my husband if he ever lied to me because then I have to start playing Sherlock Holmes and I did not sign up to be Sherlock Holmes.