This is the fastest way to destroy your relationship #podcast #women #men #relationships #Love

The fastest way to kill your relationship, two things, and both of them live in you, not them. Number one, ego. If your partner says, "Hey, that hurt me, and your first instinct is, here we go again, you're too sensitive." Or, "I didn't do anything wrong, you're not in a relationship, you're in a competition." Yeah, ego says, "I'm right." Love says, "Help me understand." When your ego is louder than their pain, their feelings will never feel safe with you. After a while, they'll stop talking, and you'll call it peace, but really it's a quiet resentment. Number two, assuming you already know, you cut them off mid-sentence, finish their thoughts in your head, roll your eyes, because you've heard this before. Sometimes your partner doesn't need you to fix it, or predict it, or debate it. They just want to feel hurt, you want to keep your relationship alive? Kill the ego, kill the need, to always be right, listen, to understand, not just to respond. Because most relationships don't die, from lack of love. They die from two people who stop listening.