You Can't Heal Someone Who Refuses To Face Themselves.. #HealingJourney #selfawareness #relationshiptruths #emotionalintelligence #boundries

When a man is unhappy with himself, he will project that onto any woman that genuinely tries to love him. He will slowly destroy her happiness because he cannot create or maintain happiness within himself. He is drawn to her light at first, but will try to dim it when he feels insecure about his own darkness. He may admire her discipline and growth, but his insecurities will eventually push him to sabotage it. And that is when everything shifts. When her growth starts exposing the parts of him he refuses to fix. This is why it is dangerous for a woman to become the recovery girl for a man who has not healed yet. He will use her patience as comfort while avoiding the hard emotional work he knows he needs to do. While she looks for ways to fix him, he finds new ways to break her without even realizing the damage. Truth is, your empathy cannot heal someone who is committed to staying the same version of themselves. If this resonated with you, drop a 100 and hit the follow button. Because this account is for people who protect their peace. God bless you.