A lot of men usually think attraction is built by saying the right things. But it is not. It's built by asking the kind of questions that make a woman feel understood, emotionally safe, and comfortable enough to be herself. The difference between a conversation she forgets and one she never stops thinking about is often just one question. Watch this before your next conversation... it could change everything. #relationshipadvice #datingtips #EmotionalConnection #HealthyRelationships #CommunicationSkills

If you want a woman to feel emotionally attached to you, stop asking these basic questions, and this video is only for men who are really intentional and want to go into very serious and committed relationship. If you know you're not ready for a committed relationship, I'll wait for you to scroll up. Okay, you are gone. If you really want women to feel emotionally attached, ask questions that will make them feel understood. These five questions will completely change your conversation with them. Women don't become emotionally attached through endless texting. In fact, most women don't like men that talk too much on when you are love-bombing them. They become emotionally attached when they feel emotionally seen, and once you understand this, you will never struggle to keep a conversation flowing again. A lot of men think building attraction is about talking more, so they send text messages from morning till night. No. You know, "Basic things like good morning, what are you doing, have you eaten, hours walk." These are those basic conversations. It's not going to form any attachment. If this is all you do, at first, she might reply you well, but in the long time, it might start feeling just like an interview and very boring to her. Not because she's less in interest, but because you are not giving any reason to open up emotionally. People don't build deep connection by exchanging information. They build them by exchanging emotions, so if you really want a conversation to stand out, here are five questions that can create a much deeper emotional connection. The first question number one is that, "What is one thing that you wish most people understood about you?" This will make her feel relaxed and happy because most people spend their whole lives feeling misunderstood, and this is one of the cause of broken relationships. The moment someone gives them the chance to explain themselves with "that's being judged, something is going to change." She might tell you things like, "Oh, I wish people new and caring, they don't just understand me." There are so many things they can tell you, but they will open up. Now you are no longer asking those basic questions of how was your day. Now she's really opening up about who she really is to you, and this is where emotional connection begins. And number two, ask her this question. "What kind of treatment makes you feel genuinely loved?" This very question does something very powerful. It's going to make her describe what love is from her own perspective. She might say things like, "I love consistency, reassurance, and someone who kills their promises." Without realizing it, she's telling you what really makes her own has to feel safe. And number three, ask her this question that, "What is one thing that someone did that she will never forget?" The conversation starts becoming very real because people really remember every compliments they received, but they will always remember the moments that changed them. She might tell you about a painful experience or a beautiful act of kindness that she will never forget. Either way, you are no longer having a small talk, you are building trust. And number four, question that you should ask her is that, "If we had a completely stress-free weekend, what would you want us to do?" This question will activate her imagination. Now she's not just answering the question, but she's picturing an experience with you. She might tell you she wants to go to the beach or your road trip, go to the cinemas or anywhere. Her mind naturally becomes emotionally connected to experiences it can imagine. And that is why this question works so well. And the last one, number five, ask her this question that, "What kind of man makes you feel emotionally safe?" Listen carefully because she's not just describing a man. She's describing the environment where her heart feels protected. The materials like honesty, pictures, consistency, and so many other good things that she wants. Kindness, good communication, respects, limits, and if you're paying attention, she is quite retelling you what exactly she wants in a partner. And this is really a lot of men get it wrong that they think talking or they can form emotional connection. But it does not really work that way. It is created by making someone feel comfortable enough by revealing a part of themselves that they would hardly share to anyone. People forget most conversations, but they really forget the person who made them feel understood. So next time, ask things that opens their hearts instead of just continuing the conversation with basic ones, because the strongest conversations are not built or been talking more. And if you have other questions, that can also create these kind of connections. Put it in the comments section. Thank you and I'll see you on the next one.