there’s a book called regretting motherhood that i’ve been wanting to read for this exact reason #motherhood #childfree

Personally, I'm glad that that lady posted about not loving being a mom. I don't think enough people talk about motherhood in like such a candid way. I feel like it's been sold to us and like marketed to us, but like I don't think it's like personally I don't want kids. I made a whole YouTube video about it, but I just feel like motherhood has been marketed to us in a certain way that women think that there's something wrong with them if they don't want to be moms, but like not enough women talk about how hard being a mom is. There's like a matrix when it comes to like womanhood, like you think that you have to be married, you think that you have to be a mom in order to be like a real woman or something, but like I don't know, I just like that's like a lie, like I don't know.