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Facts in men you didn’t ask for but need to hear Ask for part 2 in the comments #datingadviceforwomen #datingadvicefortheladies #thingsmendontwantyoutoknow

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981.9K views114.0K likes3:05ENAug 3, 2026
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things you don't want to believe are true about men but in fact are too true for a lot of you guys to handle. So if you don't want to get your feelings hurt and you want to stay in delusion, go ahead and scroll because all of these things are very true but very hurtful. Number one is thinking that there's any other reason for a man taking you on date or spending money other than he wants to sleep with you. He does not want to get to know you. He does not care about your family lineage. He does not care about your trauma. He does not care about that problem you're having with your boss. He does not care that your pinky toenail hurts. He don't care. He's simply sitting there as an obstacle to get to what he actually wants. It's between relics. If he ends up liking you from there, that's another story. But the initial attraction, the initial reason will forever and always be he wants to sleep with you. Number two, he's not broke. He's broke for you. Again, a man will spend every last dollar that he has on the woman that he actually wants. This is true. Number three, men do not have the access to schmicks that society makes you think that they do. I promise you 90, probably, I would even go for say 95% of men struggle to have consistent schmicks. This is why they will lie, deny and pry. They will do whatever it takes to be with someone to keep someone on the hook, to keep someone real dead, who has already given them access to it. Because it is not as easy as they make it seem. That is why if you're that girl who he always comes back to, this is not a good thing. This ain't a good thing, honey. Okay, all this means is he, everyone else knew better. And you didn't. Number four, if you're together more than two years without a ring, you're not the one. And if you're together, honestly, past two years, but if it's like five years plus, he's wasting your time. Men will be with women for years, four decades. They'll have children with them. They'll make verbal promises. They will bend them every which you'll, you'll be fricking cursive letters all day, every day. And at the end of the day, he will still leave you for his dream girl. Please stop thinking the more amount of time he's with you, the more he loves you. This is not true. Sometimes he just wants to live in servant. Finally, if you're not posted on his social media, it's because he doesn't want you there. No matter what excuse he's giving you, the fact of the matter is, hold me. He does not want you there. Okay, it's his thing didn't glitch. He's not super private. It's not only meant for work. He doesn't like not, I don't care. I've heard so many fucking excuses from you guys on this. If he doesn't have you on his social media, he wants to appear single and he is still looking. I don't care what your relationship status is. He's still looking. I could do more of these, but I think this might be where I stopped just so you want to. You guys don't cry. Bye.