situationship struggles 😭

If you find out that the guy you're dating is entertaining other women, don't try and compete, just leave the race. Because the main problem women have is that they try and make themselves look like the better option so that the man can pick them. Absolutely not. Wrong. Here's what you should do. If you consider yourself to be a trophy, you have no reason to compete with someone else. Don't match that energy. Don't reduce your self-worth. Don't stalk her. Don't ask him questions about her. Just go silent. Here's why silence works. You redirect all of that energy into your own elevation because masculine psychology is brutally simple. A man will only recognize what he's lost once that loss becomes permanent. The other woman is not your competition. She's a downgrade disguised as a distraction and the moment you stop reacting in the moment, he realises that you are the trophy. You were never in the same category. Let him figure it out on his own. Please please please don't question him about her.