When he hates you… he attacks your body #toxic #mamatones #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationship

When your husband hates you, he'll attack the one thing you can never hide, your body. I'm Mama Tone, I help women in toxic marriages, hear the truth, they've been talked out of trusting. And today's truth is a hard one. When your husband hates you, he doesn't always scream. Sometimes he just chips away at your confidence, one common at a time. He'll say things like, "You really let yourself go. Maybe you should lose a few pounds. You used to look so much better. Should you really be eating that ice cream in front of people?" He'll laugh and tell you he's just being honest. But he's tearing you down. Do you know what happens when you hear hateful comments about your body over and over again? You start believing them. You stop seeing yourself the way you really are. You feel ashamed every time you get dressed. You avoid mirrors. You stop taking pictures. You stop buying clothes that make you feel beautiful. You start wondering if anyone could ever love you again. Some women even start comfort eating because food becomes the only thing that doesn't criticize them. Others stop eating altogether. Either way, the damage isn't just to your body. It's to your confidence. That's exactly what he wants. Because a woman who believes she's unattractive is less likely to leave. Meanwhile, your body carried children clean that house, survived years of stress, heartbreak, and walking on eggshells. Your body isn't the problem. The man trying to make you hate it is. If he has to destroy your confidence to keep you, he already knows he can't keep you with love. Go to my bio for my free guide and coaching because you need a plan. Not another mental breakdown. Question, what's the coolest thing that he ever said to you about your body? Stay here. I'm Mama Tones. You're beautiful, Betty. I love you.