Black Men Don't Cheat...

There's a very good chance you don't know how cheating and infidelity actually work, and that primarily is because you don't know what cheating is, where it comes from, or why it happens. And your general lack of understanding around cheating is why you suck at identifying or preventing it. Hi, my name's Chase, and despite being a black man, I have over 10 years of experience in cheating. In order to understand what cheating is, we have to clear up some misconceptions first. Contrary to popular belief, cheating has almost nothing to do with moral integrity, or a general lack of character, or an inability to be loyal, or a faulty upbringing, or a genetic predisposition, or anything else like that. Cheating as a phenomena is a symptom of a series of biological impulses happening in a certain order. That's pretty much it. Or in simpler terms, cheating is what your natural animal instincts drive you to do on the very specific circumstances, because surprise, surprise, as much as we try our best to make ourselves forget this fact, we are all just a bunch of animals moving by instinct, and our instincts are designed to drive us towards just two goals. To survive and to replicate. That is it. Cheating just happens to be one of the many different strategies we employ to achieve these two goals. In fact, depending on the circumstances, cheating might just be the best strategy you can employ. To be fair though, men and women use cheating entirely differently. As men, cheating is a tool we use to amplify the numbers game. It's no secret that our best chance at genetic success is increasing both the quality and quantity of women that we have a chance to replicate with. The more in high quality women you can acquire the replication value from, the higher the chances that your genes don't get unapologetically weeded out of existence from the gene pool. So for the sake of your genetic success, it's just smarter to bet as many women as you can, while you can. Not one the other hand, while women have the exact same biological imperative as men do, they go about using the tool of cheating and infidelity in a slightly different way. Cheating for women is a way to detach from their current weaker partner, while simultaneously consolidating on a stronger partner with higher survivability value, without getting less hanging in the middle of that transition. And biologically, women are incentivized to do that because the way things are set up for them, they have way more to lose. They have a dualistic nature that they have to fulfill. They need a man that represents provisioning, and they need a man that represents protection. And for both of those men, usually without the knowing of course, to work simultaneously to keep her provided for and protected, because the sad truth here for women is that usually, those two traits provisioning and protection don't usually exist in the same man. And that's why these holes be cheating.