Le renforcement du lien d’attachement : Pourquoi les 20 minutes qui suivent un rapport intime ont plus d’impact que le rapport lui même. #psychologie #émotions #amour

What a man does after a team report may have more impact on his relationship than the report himself. During the 20 minutes that a report follows, the brain of a woman freees an important amount of citizens. A strong hormone applied in the attachment and the feeling of security. It is a decisive phase that we call the strengthening of the attachment line. At this point, her brain is evaluated unconsciously the quality of the emotional connection. She tries to know if the person with whom she is and is a source of security. However, many people take immediately their phones without any harm or anything else. Without realizing that this moment is often that the brain retains the most. A simple case, a few minutes of discussion or even a moment of calm shared may strengthen the feeling of proximity and emotional security. Because the woman will live for 20 minutes as an emotional souvenir. When this period is regularly marked by distance or indifference, the brain can gradually associate the intimacy with a feeling of loneliness. It is for this reason that the people who are hard are not necessarily those who have the most intimate relationship.