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Like, what does it take for your partner to say to you? You're so smart. Like, I just love being around you. Like, you're so handsome. I'm so lucky. Like, what does that take? That's nothing. Doesn't cost anything. It takes nothing to do that. Why don't we do it? I think we just, whoever discovered water, it wasn't a fish. Like, I think you're just in it, and you just stop seeing it. And that person's just there. And again, I don't know. And I also think culture is antagonistic to it. Because the example I give to people, because people love their dogs, and I love my dogs. But dogs are a great way to look at this rationally. Because I've got a 13-year-old dog. I got him when he was a puppy, and then he's 13. And like me, he slowed down a lot. His back hurts. He's not quite the puppy he used to be. I have never once looked at that dog and gone. I got to get a puppy. This old dog. This old dog. You didn't look as cute as he used to. And like, oh, my God, have you seen our cute puppies? They would never! It's my dog, man. I fell more in love with that dog every single day, you know? Your partner, your romantic partner? Like, when did it become acceptable as it is in culture, to just piss all over your partner? Like every guy, it's like the, ugh. I'm married to the most loved, some harpie ever, to castrate a band. Like, this one, the old ball and chain. And women, it's like the guy is like, oh, this idiot. Like this just lovable idiot, you know, he doesn't know. He doesn't know anything. He's so stupid, men are so stupid. Like, when did that, what do you think's going to come from that? Other than this disdain that we can then have for each other, and this sort of disrespect as opposed to being, like, so into each other, which is what you were. When you were strangers. You know, when you didn't know each other, you know, every, all the same women sitting around in a group of women talking about how much their husband suck. When their female friend goes, oh, my God, I'm seeing this guy, I just started seeing him. What did he, oh, my God, he sounds so great. Oh, oh, this is, oh, this is, is your guy five years ago. But somehow now, you're, you're really going to buy the delusion that if she, it all works out with him, and they get married and they do their little fairy tale thing and the cake and the dress and the whole thing, that in five years, she's still going to be like, he's so great. No, it's going to be easy. Again, just like the rest of you, 'cause I think there is something about that where we, you know, we're trying to, like, not make people self-conscious, so we just, like, take the piss out of our partner all the time in front of, you know, people or around other people, and I don't find that charming.