I finally released the last little crumb of guilt about traveling over Christmas instead of piling up expensive plastic under a tree. Being in Tahiti, talking with another Black mama who’s been holiday traveling with her daughters for years, confirmed it: this is the cheat code. We don’t spend our money making corporations richer—we spend it on ease. On being fed, rested, held, and expanded. On letting our daughters see Black women abroad, relaxed, curious, catered to, and joyful. New Year’s Eve with my girls in another country > anything wrapped in plastic coated paper. Shoutout to Coach Dad, who put me onto this iteration of the soft life over 12 years ago. Grateful we continue to chose experiences over consumption excess—and that this is our holiday tradition. #blackwomentravel #BlackTikTok #TravelingWhileBlack #tiktokpartner #92percenters

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Being loud online isnt the same as being effective. Shouting into a camera about how “no one is doing anything” is not action—and it certainly won’t bring about accountability or anybody’s justice. And I’m just here to remind everyone that none of this is Black women’s responsibility to fix, react to, carry, or absorb. We’re not the moral enforcement arm anymore. Now what?! #epsteinfilecoverup #blackwomen #92percenters #criminalconspiracy #helloitshalicue

The millennial and GenZ chapters of #92percenters just briefed me and Turns out there are several reasons your Chun-Li went full red hat at a surprise appearance at Erika Kirk’s AmericaFest. 🤵🏾‍♂️💉💰🤡😵‍💫 #blackwomenoftiktok #50plusclub #nickiminaj

And I will be making inquiries at breakfast. Stay tuned. I can really tell I’m going to like to live the vibe of this place. #ResortHalicue has officially been activated. 🌺🎅🏽🌴 @sofitelkiaoramoorea