#stitch with @Morgan Travel Psych NP This is just MY EXPERIENCE i cant speak for every #nurse . #fyp
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I don't think all nurses are mean girls, but I do think that there is some validation and how people feel about it, and I have a personal story that just correlates with my theory for real. When I went to deliver my daughter, I'd never been in a hospital like on no extended stable floor, so I really didn't know that the nurses do most of the day-to-day, so like the doctor only comes to catch your baby for real. And my nightmares, after I had my daughter, like really made me feel like very neglected. She made me feel like I was a nuisance. She made me feel like she was babysitting me and she ain't want to babysit me, and I'm a pretty chill patient, because I work in the service industry, so I know that people suck, and I try not to be one of those people that suck. And I was in some serious pain, like I'm explaining to this lady this girl, because she was really my peer for real. I'm explaining to her, like I'm in some very intense pain. I feel like I'm about to implode. I'm begging her to help me get up so I can go to the bathroom in my room. The whole night she cannot be bothered. She comes, keep on coming, bringing me 500 milligrams of Tylenol. I take 500 milligrams of Tylenol for a headache, like this is not getting me anywhere. I had extra Tylenol in my little go-back, and I would have to take extra Tylenol, like when she left. And I'm not a nurse. I don't know what that was doing to my body, but also I'm questioning this lady, like please can you take me to the bathroom? Can you just show some type of empathy? Like this girl literally could not be bothered straight up told me like you not the only mom on this hallway. And I want to add that she really only was my night nurse, and she really only got weird when my baby dad wasn't around. And I don't think that she was like trying to get with my baby dad or nothing. I think she just was being weird because not being weird, because like somebody else could bear witness to her negligence. Yeah, like straight up. So she never came back like every time I'm buzzing her, she basically like yeah, I'm gonna make my way down here when I make my way down here. She didn't say that, but that was like the vibe. And I finally like pulled myself out of the bed and crawled, tried to crawl to the bathroom. But as soon as I stood up, I passed a blood clock the size of my baby basically. So my daughter was born five pounds. That joint was like five pounds, like it looked like you could just pick it up for real. I don't know if it was five pounds, but it was huge. And it was just as her shift was ending. And she came with the girl who was coming on like for her. They came together to like check on me. And the girl that was with her just looked horrified. She was like, what the hell? Like on her face, it just was like what? What happened last night? So yeah, like not me and girls, but I don't know.



