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This is for my back to me bunch. The group of you who are looking to get back to a better self and I'll support you while you support me and we can do this together. Today I want to ask you, do you wear a belt? Like this is an honest question because I don't usually wear a belt but today I'm wearing a belt. Like look I have a belt on. But I always feel uncomfortable wearing a belt and I feel like it emphasizes how wide my hips are. If I wear it at the waist then it's that big void below it. That's like the whole money pouch. That's just to me sticks out and if I wear it at the waist then it shows how wide my hips are and then we're not even talking about the fact that my thighs look wider than they should be because I'm Norwegian and I don't really have a bottom. It's just they make it makes me very uncomfortable and very self-conscious. But the thing is is my best friend who looks a lot like me. She always wears a belt and I always think she looks very well put together and today I put on a belt and tucked in my shirt and did the whole belt thing and my coworker said you look really nice today. And the only thing that's different from this outfit compared to one that I would normally wear is the fact that I'm wearing a belt. So is my whole feelings about wearing a belt? Is that a self-conscious thing that I created and made up myself? And where does that come from? Like why do I feel like that? Why do I feel like I look bad in a belt when the truth is I don't. I actually just kind of look well put together that it kind of defines my top from my bottom and it gives like defining lines and it makes my torso look longer but why? Why is my head telling me that a belt makes me look bigger? So I'm curious as to where you are with that. What are your thoughts on that? And what do you think like a root cause would be for not wanting to wear a belt? I'm kind of I'm kind of curious. I have several belts. The one I'm wearing right now is actually too big for me to wear at my waist. It's actually one that I bought just to wear at my hips but I'm wearing it at my waist because of the jeans I have on today. But I'm curious what are your thoughts on this? Like where do you stand with a belt? Oh also I don't typically like wearing a belt because it takes too long to go to the bathroom. Or maybe that's just another excuse I've given myself on that really short. But you know where are you? Where are your thoughts?