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When someone forgives you for lying, for cheating, for betraying, for all of those things, do you know that that is lowering their standards every time they forgive you? Not only that because you continuously keep doing it, it's becoming a pattern and it's a choice that you are making. So when a woman or a male responds or they react in a way that you think they shouldn't react that way or because you apologize, you think that apology makes up for all of the times that you've been, right? Or you think because today in this moment, oh, I apologize because I lied. Let's just say lie, that that fixes everything. And to be repetitive in those actions, you take away, like you literally it's like taking a chisel and you're cracking and taking a piece away of him or her every time you do apologize with no action.