Un message d’espoir

"What luck to have my heart after a rupture? What luck?" And I know it can seem weird like that because when we are both in, it's just horrible. The only thing we look for is that this pain stops. There is maybe another way to keep it. Because to have something similar to the loss of something, it first has to have something that counts enormously. And in life, we usually pay things before seeing them. But in the case of a relationship, it's a bit of a inverse. We take advantage of it for months, years. We have someone called us, someone who doesn't know us. The places that come important simply because we are going together. And then one day, the relationship ends. And that's what it's worth paying. And it's worth it sometimes, very expensive. So we don't always have resources for this. And a thought that's called Jacques Derrida, which is an idea that I find very beautiful on it. He thinks above all about death and death. He explains that when a person disappears, it's not just a person who takes the world. It's a whole world that disappears with it. Because a relationship creates something that doesn't exist before. It's a sort of universe, two. With its habits, its language, its memories. And it's a universe, it has gone totally to one or totally to the other. It exists between the two. And I find that in a relationship, it's something quite close. Obviously, the other is still alive. Thank you. But this world, it's the end. And that's why it's so bad. We don't only lose someone, we also lose a way to see the world. We dream of the end of a possible future in a universe that we built together, but that it has stopped existing. But anyway, if this absence is so bad, it's also because of a presence that we managed to tell before. If this song also lives today, it's that one day it was full. If this song makes it bad, it's that before it made it good. And if the end of the song is as violent as we had managed to build a beautiful one. So obviously, it's not like that in real life. It makes me disappear from pain. But I find it allows us to have a different perspective on this moment. Because we obviously tend to measure everything we lost and forget sometimes everything we had the chance to live. And in the end, maybe there is the gratitude to the end of the story. Maybe some of the biggest chances we have in our life are just the ones we lose one day, very expensive. And that's not because they were bad. It's because they had enough value for their disappearance to leave a life behind them. Maybe this pain has to be seen as a way of gratitude of this end of the future for everything that has brought us. Everything that has taught us. And for the person who has made us come. So thank you. Thank you for everything.