He wasn't born this cold; he became this way when he stopped lowering his standards to make you comfortable. The silence you hear isn't anger, it is the sound of a man who is completely done trying to prove his value. He didn't change who he was, he just changed the locks to his life.
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If a man turns cold, pay close attention. If a man turns cold or stops arguing completely, do not get it twisted. That is not weakness. That is a man who has mastered his self-respect. He was not born cold. He used to be the one who cared too much. He was the one who always fixed things that he didn't break. But even the kindest heart has a limit. He is not mad, he is done. He stopped trying to prove his value because he realized you cannot teach people how to appreciate you. He simply stopped giving access to people who take his kindness for weakness. They will call him arrogant. They will say he has gone cold. He just stopped lowering his standards to make others feel comfortable. He closed the door and he changed the locks. So if you lost him, do not blame him. You didn't break him. You built him.
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