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Can I be mean for a sec? When you look up on dictionary.com, how to not be sexy. The answer that you get back is plan a whole last event with not one single woman on the stage. I don't know if guys want to be sexy anymore. I don't have a lot of evidence to that effect. But let's say they do, this is not how to do it. It's unsexy, it's uncouth, it's out of step. We want to learn about AI. We need to hear it from a bunch of guys. What? What? Furthermore, no one wants to go to your stupid event. We weren't born yesterday. It's a dumbass funnel. I don't know who would let themselves be put in this funnel, but okay, you go to the event, yada yada, you hear from these guys, funnel, purchase, funnel, purchase, purchase something that you can't afford, get screwed over. That is how it works. Sorry. I'm sorry. Okay. Maybe I'm wrong. It's called medicine. It's called medicine making the extra mean, extra crabby. I don't know, but no one wants to go to your stupid event. Manels are out. We don't do this anymore in the year of the Lord 2026 if you are an event organizer and you are looking for women in AI to grace your stage and your pain and connect you with women who are crushing it. They are bringing the house down and making audiences just gleeful all over the world. You don't have to do this. This is not the way in summary. Fuck manels and fuck eyes. I hope this is helpful.
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