This Is The Kind Of Men i Want.. #podcast #men #kindness #viral #fyp

Somebody asked me what kind of man I want and I think my answer surprised them because it had nothing to do with the things most people lead with. I do not care about tall or rich or perfect. I want a man who makes me feel safe, not physically safe. I can handle myself emotionally safe. The kind of safe where I never have to wonder if he is going to disappear when things get complicated or use silence to make me feel small when he is upset with me. A man who communicates even when it is uncomfortable because he values our connection more than he values his own comfort in that moment. I want someone who chooses me deliberately every single day, who stays gentle when the world is not being gentle with him, who actually listens when I talk, not to form a response, but to genuinely understand what I am trying to say, who sees my emotions as something worth honoring, not something to be managed or minimized, and I do not need expensive or impressive. I need kind and consistent and present someone who feels like the one place in this world where I can finally just exhale.