He Was Never Going To Marry You As someone who works with Muslim couples and singles, I’ve seen this happen too many times. Some men already know from the beginning that they will never marry the woman they are speaking to, but they keep her emotionally attached for attention, comfort, desires and validation while pursuing a serious marriage elsewhere. In this video I break down the harsh reality behind false hope, situationships, secret relationships, cultural pressure, arranged marriage dynamics and the red flags sisters keep ignoring. If you are confused about where your relationship is heading, this video may open your eyes. DM to book a session. #marriageadviceforwomen #muslimmarriageadvice #muslimmarriage #muslimrelationship #relationshipadvice @My Muslim Mentors @naveedtalksfootball @ceo_muhaymin @Bearded Bey

His sister asked me why do some men play women along for many, many years with false hope and then suddenly marry someone else? Do you really want to know my sister? It's because many of these men already knew from the beginning that you were never going to be the one that they are going to marry straight up. You were there just to fulfill desires, attention, excitement, emotional comfort, cheap thrills and lust, nothing else, that's it. This is even more true when in certain cultures where a range marriage is taken very seriously. Some brothers already know that their parents will only accept a girl chosen through family networks or overseas relatives, car systems, tribes, village ties or family approval and instead of being honest with you, they keep you around privately while their real marriage process happens publicly somewhere else behind the scenes. That's what happens. You're just a time pass, a gapfiller. Sisters, you need to understand something. A man can spend years talking to you and still not see you as a wife material. Many men can separate categories in their minds where there are women who they desire, women who they respect enough to marry. There's a difference, two different categories. This may sound painful but it's the raw truth and one of the biggest red flags is no family involvement. That's the biggest red flag. No parents involved, no serious meetings, no elders, no time or no concrete action. Just endless talking, flirting, emotional bonding and false future promises. He just desires access to you, your mind and your body. That is not a relationship moving towards marriage, my sister. That is a situation ship and you have no idea that you are being used and sisters. Some of the worst offenders are not always the obvious bad boy looking guys. Sometimes it's the outwardly practicing looking brother sometimes. Maybe it's because he's newly on the dean and he's still battling with desires. Maybe he's too weak and too scared to confront his parents. Maybe he enjoys emotional attachment and attention or maybe he just wants a secret nica with no accountability. Whatever the reason is, whatever the reason is, the end result is usually always the same. Your time gets wasted and you have given him full access to your body. Now let me give sisters a litmus test so listen carefully. Don't ask him, do you see me as marriage material? That is too obvious and pointless. A player will tell you exactly what you need to hear. Instead, ask him indirectly and during a casual conversation, what do you think makes a woman respectable and suitable for marriage? Ask the question you need to ask. Then stay quiet and listen carefully. Pay attention to how he describes her, her character, her modesty, her lifestyle, her social media, her friendship circles, her relationship with family, her behavior with other men, her dean, her reputation. Because that answer reveals the type of woman he internally respects for marriage. Now privately compare this description to yourself. Don't get emotional, just be brutally honest. If the image he paints sounds completely different to your lifestyle, your behavior, your image or your history, then there's a strong chance he already placed you in the fun zone, the not-for-marriage category in his mind. That's what he's done. And many sisters completely miss this because they confuse attention with intention. There's a difference between these two things. A man can desire you deeply and still never respect you enough to marry you. It's because it's pure lust and release for him. That's all it is. A serious man will not keep you a secret and he will quickly involve family. Anyway, I hope this has helped you and giving you some insight into how men think and operate. Like Falon Share and if you think that you're being played drop me a DM to book a cloud session. Take care, salams.