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The most exhausting man you will ever try to love is the one who has completely and thoroughly convinced himself that he is a good man. Because that belief functions as a wall, you genuinely cannot get through no matter how clearly you explain or how gently you approach it. Tell him how something he did affect you and watch exactly what happens in the next 30 seconds. He stops processing what you are actually saying and immediately starts building a defense of his character and his intentions. The conversation is no longer about your pain. It is now about how unfair it is that you are bringing this up at all. He will say something like "I guess I just cannot do anything right" and just like that the whole dynamic has flipped completely and you are now the one doing the comforting while your original pain sits there completely unaddressed. He is not doing this on purpose that is honestly the worst part. He genuinely believes he is the reason of a one in every single situation and that completely unshakable belief is exactly what makes him so impossible to actually reach no matter how many times you try.