You Can Be Fighting For Your Life And The Only Thing Some Notice Is That You're Not There For Them. #women #relationships #broken #podcast #cheating

I heard someone say you can be fighting for your life and the only thing some people notice is that you're not showing up for them the same way anymore, and that stayed with me. Because you can be barely keeping it together, waking up anxious, trying to quiet your own mind. And instead of, are you okay? You hear? You've changed. You're distant. You don't reach out like before. People don't ask why you went quiet. They get offended that your energy isn't on demand. They don't see the nights you can't sleep, the days you feel empty, the way simple things feel, heavy. What I'm learning is this. You don't know anyone access to you while you're trying to heal. If all they notice is that you're no longer showing up for them, they were never really seeing you. They were seeing what you gave. Because if they miss your usefulness more than your well-being, they were never your people. So, protect your peace. Step back if you have to. The right people won't complain about your science. You'll recognize it and come closer with care.