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This is how to become addicted to your own life. Number one, give yourself things to look forward to. Your life should only feel exciting when you're traveling or when you're dating someone or when you're going out, like plan the coffee date, take workout classes, try them in your restaurant, or give yourself a slow and intentional morning. That's what I like to do. Creating these little moments throughout your week or your day allows an ordinary day in your head to feel so much more exciting and fulfilling. Number two, stop watching everyone ask his life and start participating in your life. I think it's so easy to spend hours consuming other people's content. You may also think your life is so boring because you're not doing everything or anything that these people are posting about, realize that people are only posting the best parts of their life. They're not showing you how they got there, they're not showing you who they're there with, they're not showing you anything behind the scenes as to how they're experiencing all these things. Simply put your phone down, I started to spend less time on social media because I was like, why am I consuming so many people's content when I should be creating content and living presently in my own life? I think what I realize is that comparison makes you a spectator of your own life, which is true. Lastly, number three, become genuinely interested in yourself, learn what you like and what you don't like, develop hobbies and set goals, take yourself to new places and even on solo dates, become curious about who you are and who you are becoming. Remember, the more that you invest in yourself, the less you'll need another person to make your life feel complete. I love you and I'll see you.