I get a lot of men saying “this is my first time”

This might be hard to believe, but a lot of the men who come to see me are actually quite nervous. Now because of some of the services that I offer, when men have found me, it's normally because they've seen something online that suggests I have this commanding presence that I'm domineering and I can be bossing, can be quite mean. Now you're often see people in my industry offering something called the girlfriend experience. I do something like this but just with a little twist. I offer the ex girlfriend experience. When some men come to see me, they want the attitude of a woman who just takes what she wants and so even if they're in their inquiry, they seem confident, they know what they want and this is definitely something that they're after. When they arrive, they often have this kind of first date jitters about them because also a lot of the people that get in touch with me are often first-timers. These are men that have never necessarily paid for sex before. So what tends to happen is when they show up, we engage in some polite conversation, I don't know, I tell them about my day, they can peruse and kind of assess my setup. And then I invite them to take a shower and get into a cozy robe. Now, envision, when I open the door and I welcome them, I'm kind of wearing something not formal but casual and discrete. When they go into the shower, you know, they get comfortable, they have a little rinse, they get warm. They put on their robe and they come back into the room where I am and I'm wearing something completely different. Something a little bit more saucy. This often moves their focus from their head and their anxiety to something else. And then all of the nerves seem to just dissipate and they kind of want to get down to the action. I kind of like it when they're a little bit nervous because for me it creates space for asking questions and kind of discovering what they're into and that way I learn a little bit more about them and I feel safer and I feel connected to them and then I feel assured that I know I'm going to do my job properly. But also there is a part of me that kind of likes it when they're nervous. I feel like I've got them in the palm of my hand, you know. It's always fun to see a man quiver.