When a man hates his life he usually blames one person… the woman who stayed. #marriagetruth #relationshipreality #mamatones #womentiktok #healingwomen
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"When a man hates his life, when a man hates his life, the easiest person to blame is the woman closest to him, his wife." Because facing his own choices is uncomfortable. It's easier to believe someone else ruined things, so slowly the blame shifts. If he's unhappy, it's because she complains too much. If he's frustrated, it's because she asks for too much. If he feels stuck, it must somehow be her fault. Before long, the marriage becomes a place where she absorbs all of his anger. Every disappointment, every insecurity, every regret, she starts believing it. She starts wondering if she really is the problem. Maybe she asks for too much in the relationship. Maybe she should just be easier to live with. But guess what? A man who refuses to face himself will eventually start resenting the woman who sees him clearly. And instead of growing, he starts punishing her for it. Stay with me. I'm Mama Tone. Meet me in the women's healing circle next Thursday, 7pm. Link in the bio, limited seats. I love you, Betty.
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