When you observe your man and not say a thing everything comes out. #leavingatoxicrelationship #abuse #toxicrelationship #mamatones
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Let that man do whatever he wants, let him text whoever he wants, let him follow whoever he wants, let him act single while he's standing next to you. Girl, stop fighting for a seat in a man's life that he keeps trying to make you audition for. You're not in begging mode anymore. You're in observation mode. Watch him. Pay attention. Watch what he does when you stop reminding him to respect you. Watch what he chooses when you stop explaining your feelings. Watch how comfortable he gets when he thinks you're too attached to leave. Because whether you cry, scream, beg, argue, check phones or lose sleep, a man is still going to do what he wants to do. Every time you chase behind him, you only teach him one thing. I can embarrass her and she still will stay. Now, let him move how he wants. Then based on what you see, you move accordingly. Not loudly, not desperately, not emotionally wrecked. Quietly, because there are other men out there. There is more life out there. There is not enough time to babysit a grown man's loyalty. If you're done begging for basic respect, write observe in the comments below. Stay here. I'm Mama Tones. Follow for more.
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