a man can watch you cry… and feel nothing? That’s not love. That’s a man who got comfortable hurting you. #MamaTones #RelationshipTruth #EmotionalAbuse #ToxicMarriage #WomenWakeUp
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If a man can peacefully sleep after breaking you, he's not struggling. He's stable in his cruelty because a man who watches you fall apart and goes to bed calm has already decided your pain is acceptable to him. Once your pain becomes acceptable to him, it becomes routine. Do you think he doesn't understand how much he hurts you? He understands. He just doesn't feel urgency and that's the part you keep missing. A confused man feels guilt, a tired man feels remorse, a loving man panics when you cry. But a man who feels nothing? He's measuring how far he can go. Once he sees you stay, once he sees you forgive, once he sees you come back soft, he doesn't soften. He escalates, goes harder because now he knows your breaking point. That's not love. He's experimenting and the most dangerous thing a woman can do is teach a man how much she can survive. Stop proving your endurance, start observing his character, and if he can watch you crumble without flinching, believe what you're seeing. He's already shown you exactly who he is. Save this video, follow for more. Mama loves you, meet me at the women's circle, March 12th, 7pm, link in the bio, see you there.
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