The first time your body felt scared of him… that was not anxiety. That was your warning. And the part you keep avoiding? You already know what it means. Wake up before he destroys what’s left of you. #ToxicRelationship #EmotionalAbuse #MarriageTruths #RedFlags #mamatones
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The first time he punches a wall, you fucking leave. The first time he screams in your face, you fucking leave. The first time you feel afraid of him, you fucking leave. The first time he blames you, lies, gas lights you, refuses to take accountability, you fucking leave. The first time he gives you the silent treatment or picks somebody else's comfort over your pain, you leave. The first time he hides where he is and gets mad at you for asking, you leave. The first time he lies about an addiction, you leave. The first time he makes you the butt of a joke or buy something big behind your back, you fucking leave. When he looks at you with those big cold fucking eyes, while you're crying right in front of him, shattered, you fucking leave. Let's not pretending for a second. You already know this, you just haven't admitted it yet. When you start hiding, what's going on? When your body starts breaking down and no doctor can tell you why? Because deep down, you already should have. If this sounds like your relationship, mama needs you to wake the fuck up. Before this man destroys what's left of you. Stay here, I'm Mama Tones. Share this with a person that needs it. I love you.
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