He didn’t stay because he loves you. He stayed because his life still works with you in it. That’s the part nobody wants to say out loud. You keep thinking “if I try harder, it’ll get better.” But he’s already comfortable watching you struggle. If this feels familiar… you already know. Stay here. I’m Mama Tones. #toxicmarriage #emotionallyabusive #relationshiptruth #marriageadvice #toxicrelationships
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He hates you and he's staying Stop telling yourself it was bad. He'd leave now He stays Uses you lives off of you treats you like shit. Watch as you cry You're still thinking he's confused He's not confused. He has patience for everybody else Talking laughing smiling You everything you do is a problem. So now you're quiet You think before you speak you shrink yourself you walk on eggshells In your own damn house. That's not stress. That's not a rough patch That's a man who doesn't like you, but still pulls on to you And you're sitting there thinking love will fix it It won't. This is beyond love Save this video. Follow Mama for more
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