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It is far better to start over and build a life you love, than cling to a life you hate because starting over from square one is scary. You keep pretending this misery is just a season, but you let it go on and on for years until it’s just your life. Everyone around you is too polite to say, what you’re doing isn’t working. It’s too awkward to tell you that you’ve been saying the same bullshit for years. Instead, everyone just placates everyone else and continues on in their unpleasant life. This is not how things have to go. You can decide today to take action. You don’t have to wait for some arbitrary thing to happen before you do what you want to do. Life can look radically different one month from now if you just did the thing you’ve been avoiding. 🆘🇺🇸 #creatorsearchinsights

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You think starting over is failing, but the only failing is staying miserable far longer than necessary. I can't tell you how many people comment on my videos and say they wish they could move abroad. That statement is a very powerless statement. You are not taking any control or power over your ability to make change in your own life. If you wish you could move abroad, then let's put that plan into action and make that a reality for you. Don't wish something and not take any action because then you're just staying stuck in your own misery. You're staying stuck in the comfort zone. You're staying stuck in a life that no longer serves you. I can help you turn that little idea into a full blown action plan. I can help you take that statement of you wish you could do something and match your situation to available visas globally to help you understand where you can move. Instead of staying in that mindset where you wish you could do something and you pretend you have no power to be able to do that. Starting over in a brand new country seems extremely daunting. I get that, but staying in a situation where you supposedly have all these things but you're miserable is not a way to live. You can move abroad and start over with nothing and build that life where you are happy and content and safe and comfortable. All the things that you wish you could have in America that have just not worked out. You haven't been able to create that because the system is stacked against you. If we haven't met yet, I'm Veronica. Five years ago, I took my family of four and packed eight suitcases and left the United States. We didn't know it was going to be forever, but it's been five years now and we are not moving back. Make sure you follow this account so that you can learn more about how your family can move abroad. The thing that you're failing to realize is there's this idea called the sunk cost fallacy. And that concept is that you should continue down a path just because you've started the path. A great example of this is college. If you're going to college and you are majoring in a certain thing because you've always thought you wanted to go into nursing. So you're going through your schooling, you're doing your nursing school, and at some point you realize you absolutely hate this and you do not want to become a nurse anymore. But you feel that because you've already invested so much time, money, and energy into this program, you should just go ahead and finish that program because you've already started it. But that's actually not true. You should actually stop the program because any more time, money, and energy that you invest in that thing that you do not like is a waste. So the idea that you should finish something to completion like your life in America, you started in America, you should finish in America, just keep trying to make that work because that is what you already agreed to. Just remember, you didn't agree to it. That is not something you have to sign up for forever. It is much better to cut bait and run than to continue to invest in that idea, concept, living situation, anything where you are miserable. That sunk cost fallacy is the reason why you should not keep trying to make America work for you. You should just leave and start over to create the life that you deserve.

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You need the right order of steps. 
You need a strategy that fits your life. 
You need someone who understands how to move from vague dream to actual plan. I help Americans who are tired of researching moving abroad and ready to start taking action. Follow if you want practical guidance, realistic next steps, and a clear path toward living abroad. 🆘🇺🇸

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