Replying to @amanda90m When people claim they are doing “everything” they can, it’s awkward to tell them they aren’t. Almost always those interactions end with them being placated. I think the mere fact that moms are putting up with the United States in its current form is proof that you aren’t doing enough. We have been conditioned to believe shootings in schools are just a normal part of raising children. America is absolutely bonkers. You can pack a bag and leave by car to Mexico. Why haven’t you? Because you need to know ten million things before you go? No you don’t. All you need to know is that there are less school shootings in literally every other country versus America. Thinking about all the ways in which it is impossible to leave is not doing something. Taking action and getting your kids out is doing something. 🆘🇺🇸
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Mom, tell me this kind of thing a lot. They use their kids as an excuse of why they cannot move abroad, even though they supposedly want to. But instead, I'd like to shift your perspective to look at it as your kids being the reason why you move. Not the excuse, the reason. Your kids are growing up in a different version of America than we've been sold that exists. Safe schools don't exist. Safe malls don't exist. Safe concerts don't exist. Your kid is statistically less safe in the United States than they would be virtually anywhere else that you could pick to go move abroad. I know it might sound harsh to say, you're not trying hard enough, but I'm gonna hold your hand when I say this. You're not trying hard enough. You can leave the United States. You don't have to say you wish you could. You absolutely can. It might not look like some Instagram story, but you can leave. There are lots of options that will be safer than the daily life you're subjecting your kids to currently in the United States of America. I recognize that your mind has had to do a lot of mental gymnastics to accept the reality that is America right now, and you have had to convince yourself that things are safer than they are in order to get yourself through the day. But things are not statistically safe in the United States. And the sooner you accept that instead of making excuses, the better off your children will be. If you don't know me, I'm Veronica. And five years ago, I had had it with active shooter drills and not feeling safe at the mall and being afraid to take my kids to concerts. So we left America for good. And now we've lived on three different continents and my kids are safe at school and they're allowed to go to the mall on their own. And we've seen concerts abroad, big names, like Backstreet Boys and Lady Gaga, living abroad is the safer option, full stop. If you need help figuring out which country will take you and your family, book an exit plan consultation. And I will help you figure out how your reality can match with potential visas around the world. You don't have to just keep telling yourself you want to, but you can't. Take the step of meeting with me so that you can understand your options.
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Replying to @seraphina.shop You may not realize this, but you have over 300,000 items in your home. Selling everything in your house is a great way to build your move abroad fund. When we left the country all our stuff for a family of 4 fit into 8 suitcases. In my minimalism e-course I teach you how to solve the underlying reasons why you accumulate stuff to begin with. Once you get rid of your stuff you are able to leave with money in your pocket and no stress about your possessions. Minimalism actually allowed us to turn our house into an Airbnb which is one of our main funding sources of our life abroad. 🆘🇺🇸
Everywhere you live has trade offs. In the U.S. you sacrifice safety for economic opportunity. For our family, we weren’t willing to live with that risk. Moving across the world gave us a sense of calm and freedom that is worth the loss of income potential. No amount of money could ever make up for the possibility that our kid could be gunned down at school in America. I don’t let parents pretend to be ignorant to the reality of gun violence in schools. You can’t just pretend you don’t realize that’s a possibility everyday you send your kids to school. Either admit you are wiling to take the risk or do something about it. The something we did was to move abroad where school shootings don’t happen. 🆘🇺🇸 #creatorsearchinsights
You don’t owe anyone an explanation for why you want to leave the United States. Whatever your reasons are for wanting to move to another country, they are enough. All the data supports your idea that leaving is best. Your mental health, your safety, and your future self all deserve to get out. I ran away from America five years ago and it was the best decision of our lives. We are all happier because we left. 🆘🇺🇸 #creatorsearchinsights
Replying to @justjaimie123 Saying you can’t leave the country because of money is your cover story. There is something deeper happening. You haven’t let your heart accept that leaving is what you really want. When someone wants something badly enough and they let themselves feel that, solutions will come. People make things happen if they want the bad enough. You will have to do things you have never done to go places you have never gone. If money was the only obstacle, you would have figured out how to get it by now. 🆘🇺🇸