If leaving the country is your dream then you should be taking aligned actions. But, what I hear over and over again is: “Find me a job, then I’ll move” “I’ll go if you’re paying for it” “You gotta convince my ex to let me go” “Once you find a cheaper way to bring my dog then I can go” The excuses are constant. Really? You are going to scroll on TikTok instead of finding solutions to these problems? This is a lack of tenacity that makes me think you don’t actually want to leave the country. 🆘🇺🇸 #TikTokEncyclopediaContest #creatorsearchinsights
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One of the most disheartening things I see in my comment section are people that have just absolutely given up control of their lives The most common way this shows up is that people claim they want to move abroad But they only can if somebody else does the hard part They'll say I would move abroad, but you need to find me a job first or I would move abroad But you need to get my ex-husband to agree first or I would move abroad But you need to figure out how I can get my dog first. Oh, oh you want me to figure that out I need to figure out how to get you a job and convince your ex-husband and get your dog over there And this is what I call the outsourced my dream syndrome You claim you have this dream you claim you want to move abroad and Yet instead of being willing to do the hard part in order to make that dream come true You literally put that responsibility on someone else and say here. You handle the hard part Otherwise, I'm not going to live my dream. You're basically living your life waiting for motivation by miracle You've externalized your own agency over your own life and the big decisions over somebody else doing something for you You've made your happiness contingent on them doing that thing for you Otherwise, you're just waiting and you're waiting is conditioned on Somebody else's behavior instead of your own So what I say to those people who have outsourced their dreams is that if you actually wanted it You would dig in and be eager to solve the hard stuff Instead of pretending it's someone else's responsibility to do that for you If you don't know me yet, I'm Veronica and I've done a lot of hard stuff in order to move abroad I became a minimalist. I started letting strangers sleep in my bed by doing Airbnb in my own home part time I filled out endless paperwork for my family afford to be able to live on three different continents I convinced my parents to come live with us in Japan for eight months and did all of their paperwork I've written hundreds of blogs and created online content in order to make remote income I didn't outsource my dreams and neither should you if you are ready to make a change and actually dig in to where can you move join my 2026 global life accelerator where we will have 60 days of group coaching where you can figure out How are you going to do each of these steps everything from remote income to getting health insurance Qualifying for visas picking up schools for your kids abroad all of the steps are going to be in weekly sessions For 60 days right now it's on early bird pricing so make sure you click on the link in my bio and snag your spot before those sell out We're going to be starting January 1st to give you a whole new life where you are in control and nobody else
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