Patterns always tell the truth. #toxicmen #relationshiptruth #selfworthwomen #emotionallydrained #knowyourworth
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A man who knows he's hurting you, and stays at the same time, is choosing himself. Pay attention to the patterns, not apologies, not promises patterns. If a man sees you crying, sees you withdrawing, sees you changing, and still continues the same behavior, that is not confusion, that's a choice. A choice to protect his comfort, over your emotional safety. Love doesn't require perfection, but it does require care, it requires awareness, it requires effort, and if someone can clearly see they're breaking your heart and feel no remorse or urgency to grow, you have to ask yourself what you're really holding on to. Because staying the same while watching you suffer is still a decision. Read that again. Save this video, follow for more. Mama loves you. I love you, Betty.
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