When your husband hates you, the lying to the outside world starts first. He protects his image harder than he protects your heart. #toxicmarriage #toxichusband #emotionalabuse #marriagetruth #mamatones

Your husband doesn't just lie about you, he builds a case against you and starts a war even before you even know it. Your husband doesn't wake up one day and tell people that you're crazy. He plants it slowly while you're still cooking in the house, still sleeping next to him, still protecting his name. He's already outside the marriage telling people that you're difficult, you're emotional, that you're angry and never satisfied. He leaves out the part where he ignored you for days, maybe even 10. He leaves out the part where he embarrassed you in front of people. He leaves out the part where he gave strangers his best move, came home treating you like a problem. He leaves out the nights where you cried right next to him while he turned over and went to sleep. He only tells them the part where you finally snapped. Do you think that's by accident? It isn't because it's a setup that's a grown man building a case against his own wife. When the truth comes out, nobody believes her. And guess what? Listen to this. He'll tell people, I don't know what happens to her. Sir, you happen to her, the silence happens to her, the disrespect happens to her, the humiliation happens to her, the years of being unseen happens to her, and stop pretending for a second. A husband who has to ruin your reputation to protect his image already knows he's done you dirty. That's why he ran to the crowd first, not because he's innocent, but because he's scared of what you could say if you finally stop protecting him. Sound familiar? Stay here. I'm Mama Tones. Follow for more.