You keep saying “he doesn’t hate me”… but you keep living like this. Explaining yourself just to be heard. Walking on eggshells in your own house. Getting attitude for asking for basic respect. At some point it’s not confusion anymore. It’s a pattern you keep trying to excuse. Read the signs for what they are. #whenamanhatesyou #toxicmarriage #relationshiptruth #emotionalabuse #marriagetok
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if your husband didn't hate you he wouldn't do these seven things. One, he wouldn't call you stupid, then watch you try and prove you're not. Two, he wouldn't call you fat, common on your body, what you eat, then say he's being honest. Three, he wouldn't embarrass you in front of people, bring up your business, your mistakes, then laugh at you while you sit there. Four, he wouldn't twist your words. That's not what I said. You always do this until you're the one apologizing. Five, he wouldn't ignore you all day. One word answers no response, then acts confused when you pull it back. Six, he wouldn't make you check his mood before you speak. Listening for tones, watching his face, seven, and he wouldn't sit there while you're crying, scrolling, unbothered, like your background noise. That's not a bad day. This is a pattern. He's not struggling to love you. He's comfortable hurting you. Stay here. I'm Mama Tones. Share this with a friend that needs it. Love you, Betty.
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