The hard part of moving abroad is temporary. The hard part of staying in America is permanent. Visa applications are hard for 6-12 months. Then they're done. Learning a new system is hard for 6 months. Then it's familiar. Adjusting to a new culture is hard for a year. Then it's home. But staying in America? Medical bills are hard forever. Unaffordable housing is hard forever. Fear for your kids' safety is hard forever. Working yourself to exhaustion just to survive is hard forever. One type of hard has a light at the end. You struggle, you adjust, you arrive at easier. The other type of hard just... continues. And compounds. And gets worse as systems deteriorate and costs rise and your body ages under stress. You're not avoiding hard by staying. You're choosing which kind of hard you're willing to endure. Link in bio when you're ready for temporary hard instead of permanent hard. ๐๐บ๐ธ
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I've been told that I make moving abroad sound easy and that that frustrates people because they perceive moving abroad to be extremely hard. What I'd like to explain to you is that what you're doing right now is extremely hard. You are in survival mode. Everyone who comes to me saying it's not as easy as you make it sound is in an extremely difficult situation. They're broke, they're tired, they're angry and they don't know what to do about it. The difference between moving abroad and staying stuck in that situation that you've been stuck in for a long period of time and will continue to be stuck in for a long period of time is that if you figure out a way to change your life and move abroad, then you will have calm on the other side. Whereas if you stay in the hard situation of the United States, you're just always going to have more hard ahead. I know that money is the main issue and that you're feeling like I don't have any extra wiggle room in the United States. That money that you earn, every cent of it goes out. There are only two ways to solve this problem. You have to cut the expenses to the bare minimum, not the bare minimum of like what makes you still comfortable and in your hard situation. But like really the bare minimum, really get rid of Netflix, really cut your internet to minimum amounts, really cut the expenses in every possible way. And then the other option is to increase your income. And most people should be doing both of those things. Increasing your income in order to get out of the United States is going to be a temporary discomfort. You're going to have to do things that you've never done before in order to earn income in a way that you've never earned before. But doing that temporary discomfort is going to on the other side of it lead to calm and freedom. But staying in the United States always angry and bitter that you're constantly broke and tired and angry. That is not going to help you. So while moving abroad itself is not easy, doing it will lead to an easier life than what you're living right now.
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The life you've built in America isn't the life you wanted. It's the life you could scrape together under constraints of: wages that don't cover basics, healthcare tied to employment, housing costs consuming half your income, constant financial stress, survival mode as default state. You didn't choose misery. You chose best option available within impossible constraints. But those constraints are geographic. Change geography, change constraints, change what's possible. The apartment you can barely afford in America becomes the nice place with breathing room abroad. The paycheck that barely covers survival in America becomes the income that allows saving abroad. The constant stress about one emergency destroying you financially becomes manageable situation where emergencies are expensive but not catastrophic. Same income. Same skills. Same person. Different location. Completely different life. You're not stuck because you lack resources. You're stuck because resources you have don't work in location you're in. Move those resources to location where they work better, and you're not stuck anymore. But moving requires: tolerating uncertainty about how things will work out, being uncomfortable while figuring out new systems, releasing familiar patterns even when familiar is miserable, trusting you can build better life from scratch. Most people choose familiar misery over unfamiliar uncertainty. Devil you know feels safer than devil you don't, even when devil you know is grinding you down. This is why people stay in: jobs they hate, relationships that don't work, locations that don't serve them, lives that feel like slow suffocation. Because at least they know how to survive current misery. Unknown is terrifying even when unknown might be better. But what if you're not choosing between misery and uncertainty? What if you're choosing between: familiar misery that will continue indefinitely, or temporary uncertainty that leads to actually building life you want? When you're in survival mode, you're making choices based on: what's cheapest, what's fastest, what gets you through next month, what keeps crisis at bay. Not what you actually want. What you can manage given constraints. Those choices compound into life that doesn't reflect your preferences. Reflects what you could piece together while drowning. But when you move somewhere your income works better, you're not in survival mode anymore. You have breathing room to choose based on: what you actually want, what serves your family, what creates life you're proud of. That's not small difference. That's the difference between life you're enduring and life you're choosing. Living in America isn't default you're stuck with. It's choice you're making every day by not choosing differently. And choosing differently is available to you. Link in bio for people ready to choose. What would you choose if survival wasn't consuming all your energy? ๐๐บ๐ธ