Wanting to move abroad but my partner doesn't creates an impossible equation: whose need matters more? Your need for change, safety, mental health, forward motion. Their need for stability, familiarity, control, staying where they're comfortable. You can't both win. Someone's needs get sacrificed. The question is: whose? If you stay, you sacrifice yourself to maintain their comfort. If you leave (the country or the relationship), they lose the life they want to preserve. Most people default to: stay and sacrifice yourself. Because leaving feels selfish. But sacrificing your mental health, your agency, and your future to prevent your partner from feeling uncomfortable isn't noble. It's just slow-motion self-destruction. Some partners are scared but persuadable. Show them how it works. Answer their questions. Remove the logistics barrier. My husband wasn't against moving abroad. He just needed to understand how. Once I showed him, we left 6 weeks later. But if your partner isn't scared of HOW - they're opposed to moving at all - you're not dealing with fear. You're dealing with fundamental incompatibility. Wanting to move abroad but my partner doesn't eventually becomes: Do I stay trapped or do I leave? Link in bio when you're ready to stop pretending there's a compromise. ๐๐บ๐ธ #TikTokCreatorSearchInsightsIncentive
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When it comes to marriage, it's impossible for both partners to agree on everything all of the time. But that doesn't mean that you shouldn't be advocating for the things that you want to do in a marriage. So for example, if one partner wants to move abroad and the other partner doesn't, you have to start to look at how badly does each of the people believe the thing that they are saying that they want. Some persons are afraid to do anything and one person desperately wants to do something. So the person who desperately wants to do something can either get that person who's afraid to do anything on their side or the person who wants to move forward and do the thing will have to just resign themselves to not doing what's going to make them happy. Or end in divorce. I hate to say that, but when things as big as your mental health are concerned and one partner just wants to take no action to help the other partner have better mental health, it becomes a big enough deal that you have to wonder if the marriage is viable for the future. And moving abroad really does come down to your mental health because if you are stuck in America and you don't want to be, that will continue to wear on you. And the resentment will build in the marriage because that partner refuses to take action. They refuse to move. And that speaks to how much they're willing to do to care for you and what you need. If you don't know me yet, I'm Veronica. And five years ago, it was my idea to move out of the country. And the only question my husband had was how do we do it? And once I showed the path of how we were going to do it, we did it six weeks later. We lived in a new country. If you are in America right now and you're wondering how do you get out, book an exit plan consultation with me and I will show you how you can personally follow a path to a visa program around the world and lead the United States.
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